Last night was a lady-date with a friend from school. We made our way into the west loop to cross another restaurant off my list, Avec. We had a great old-world red bottle of wine that really brought out the flavors of the plates we tried. We chatted for hours solving the world’s problems and the endless boy problems that never cease to exist being an indesicive twenty-something. It is nice to find a friend here that sees sex, relationships and confidence similarly. I feel that I’m at a point in my life where I’m straddling the edge of wanting stabilty and a predictable relationship versus still desiring the spontaneity, randomness and independance of being unattached.

What is a girl to do?